Ok i need to vent im so confused i need advise from an outsiders point of view please help me?

Ok so I'm 20 years old I work 2 jobs and on my spare time I babysit or even dog walk for extra cash... I live with my parents who treat me like a complete child starting with my dad he's your typical strict Latin I have a 1 am curfew on weekends and week days he really doesn't like me even going out he's not the guy who you can have conversations with he jumps the gun and it is like walking on egg shells when he's around then theirs my mom she thinks I'm in capable of anything I try to explain to her how unhappy I am with my life how much I hate the city I live in Miami and how I'm saving money and would like to move to Orlando to further my career in hospitality I feel so unwanted and out of place in life I'm always single my self esteem is really low and I feel like I can't do anything right no matter what I do its never good enough for my parents my mom is always putting me down I always make plans for my future and when I share them with my mom she shoots it down and makes me think ill never be able to accomplish it so instead of arguing I just scratch the whole idea and just add it to my list of dreams how can I be happier how can I move away without causing world war 3 in my house I honestly feel like I have no one and nothing to live for...